Saturday, January 31, 2009

Bill and Evie's Family



We were all together, so after the burial and back at the church, it was time to gather the family for a group photo. As we were posing and configuring I had to comment how Grandma Espesethish I was becoming. She always made sure group shots were taken. Inevitably, we would moan and groan, but as the years passed we are glad she made sure the pictures were taken.

This picture is the children, grandchildren and great grandchildren of Evie and Bill.

Tom is on the far left with Billy, Carsten, me, Ron, Tad and Erik in the back row. Second row: Will, held by Nancy, Lacy, David, Elizabeth, held by Karlie, Missy, and Nicki Espeseth. In the front, all by his lonesome, is Collin Espeseth

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Beau Davis Reid



While my heart is hurting, it is also bursting with joy. A new baby has entered into the world. Beau Davis Reid, son of Nicole and Robert and brother to Lainey Grace was born last night in Spokane. Go to the blog www.laineygreid.blogspot.com (or go under favorite sites "All About Lainey" on the right of this blog) to see our newest grand baby. We are so happy for them and thankful there are women like Jennifer to make this possible.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Evie


My dear sweet mother passed away yesterday, the 27th of January, about 1:15 in the afternoon. How I will miss her, but yet know she is in a better place.

She had been hospitalized last week for pneumonia and dehydration. After some aggressive antibiotics and IV fluids she responded fairly well. My brother Tom was here for the weekend and had some good time with her.

Maybe she figured her ducks were in a row now after his visit and decided it was time.

She went pretty peaceful, after a few short hours of distress. It was much to be thankful for. I have seen families wait and wait, while praying for peace.

She was ninety four and had a nice life. I will always love and miss her.

You can only have one mother
Patient, kind and true;
No other friend in all the world,
Will be the same to you.
When other friends forsake you,
To mother you will return.
As we look upon her picture,
Sweet memories we recall,
Of a face so full of sunshine,
And a smile for one and all.
Sweet Jesus, take this message,
To our dear mother up above;
Tell her how we miss her,
And give her all our love.

Author Unknown -
Taken from Hazel Gackle's funeral bulletin.
January 26, 2009.

Monday, January 19, 2009

Will the Kitchen Sink Be Next?


This weekend there were 165,000 purses for sale on ebay. Times must be rough, to sell your purse??? I hang on (oooh , play on words there) to them for what seems like forever. Under my bed is a Rubbermaid container full of "I might just use this one someday" purses. Today the purse count was down to 96,000.



Then I found this one of Fergie with her purse. She just married Josh Duhamel. He is from Minot. She has been spotted in the Magic City. More brush with greatness possibilities

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Hello Big Sky Montana!



On MapLoco I spotted a Big Sky Montana entry. The "relations" (I love that down home folksy term for relatives) are out skiing for their annual trek to Big Sky. Myles and I use to go with, it was a wonderful time full of good memories.

It was also a brush with greatness for us. Ted Turner and Jane Fonda were (Ted is minus Jane now ya know!) spotted skiing and eating VERY close to us. Ted's home base ranch, the Flying D, is in the neighborhood. Ted and Jane sitings were quite common in those days. Jane even chatted to Sandra, my sister-in-law, at the salad bar. Now that is a Brush with Greatness.

And nothing takes us down memory lane better than the Kodak!

This where I trot off to get some memorabilia of past trips. Wrong answer. I found ONE! And this was pinned on my sewing room wall. (Most likely I found it and jabbed it up to put away - someday) Now I am thoroughly puzzled as to where the Big Sky photos are. Fifty billion pictures and I can never find the ones I want when I want. Such organization.

This is moi with Carsten,(how's that for a motherly grip??) about 4 months old, standing by Ted and Jane's Land Rover. Upon close inspection you will spot a Georgia License plate.



So much for old time photos. I did find the Big Mountain trips. So should the relations check the blog again. Hi, ski one for me, better yet, hoist one.

You don't suppose it was Ted, checking out the blog?

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Deep Snow, You Betcha!


Unofficially we have had 73.5 inches of snow. That is over 6 feet. Yikes! This morning it is -22 below.

Monday, January 12, 2009

The Plot Thickens


My rotator cuff patient was on the mend and doing fairly well until he developed a blood clot in his lower calf, which radiated pain to the bottom of his foot. "Excruciating pain" was the verbiage.

So off to Minot on the 2nd, a Friday, for a sonogram to confirm the suspicions. The hospitalist put him on 325 mg Aspirin (one!) one time per day. I opted to go to work instead of going with him, which was a big mistake. Ron doesn't do information well. He hears what he wants and usually certain words bellow to the forefront. In this case it was "chest pain, difficulty breathing" but he failed to hear the words "superficial thrombophlebitis, and highly unlikely". He did not have a deep vain thrombosis (DVT) which could result in chest pain and shortness of breath. He was sure the aspirin therapy was some kind of joke, he thought he should have had more aggressive treatment than a mere aspirin!

So lucky Mare gets the weekend with someone who is sure he going to croak before sundown. I called my friend Carla, who has had three clots, she was of some comfort and help. Her last clot had traveled to her lung. She was sent home on Coumadin, which she will take it for the rest of her life. And guess what? Carla has lived to tell the story.

To make what could be a long story a little less long: he did survive the weekend, although a 30 second side pain on Sunday night was harrowing. I'm sure he would have liked the ambulance on standby - at the foot of the driveway - but knew I'd never go along with that.

So here we are today, the 12th of January, with already our 50th blizzard and/or snowstorm, (had a short one last night) or so it seems, just under our belts. Ron and I were determined to get to his appointment, which was cancelled on Friday (you guessed it - snowstorm) for the shoulder and clot. Carsten was snowed in at his friend's house 25 miles out in the sticks so I was the designated snow blower, the one to get us out of the driveway. A one armed man and a shovel, bad combo. As I am getting the snow blower going...

When what to my wondering ears should appear?

Ron has fallen down the basement steps (we have an outside stairwell in the garage that goes into the furnace room) letting out a sickening, gasping, groan. His arm in a sling and he is in a heap at the bottom of the cement stairwell. The steps had become ice covered from a thaw the day before, before the quicky blizzard. I shudder when I think of his crash, the hard ice and nothing to stop him but the wall.

He didn't want the ambulance, just me, an old EMT to get him up. The damaged sites: the elbow (the sling helped protect it) and flank. "I think I busted a few slats," he whispers in a breathy monotone.

After some assessing we went to his appointment with the orthopod. How handy after a glancing blow to the ribcage. So in we go, me marching and he hobbling. They did take a picture of the chest to look for any busted slats, to cop a phrase from the injured party. He didn't see any breakage, but said he could have a crack. His pain is awful - let's use excruciating again. In fact, on the way home he said this is worse than the shoulder ever was, and I would never make through this kind of pain. I, who carries on over a hangnail. Time to reflect: childbirth X4!

The last dazzler for the day was when I took the script down to the pharmacy - mind you back in Velva - and Dr. Scott had made it for Darvocet, which he is allergic to. So Ron had to wait for Scott's practitioner to get into the office, to order another pain med - for the slat. Finally, at 3:30 pm, Ron was able take pain meds and rest. I, on the other hand, went back to snow blowing.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Here We Go Again



We are awaiting the full blast of this week's blizzardo. Expected is about 6.3 (who decides the .3? It went from 5.9 up to 6.3) inches of snow during the night and 30 mile an hour winds tomorrow. Sounds like a recipe for more trouble.

I guess first I should be a little more clear on my jargon. A blizzard requires snow and wind of 35 miles an hour for four or more hours. We only have a winter storm in our midst. We could have gusts to 34, but only gusts. Just a winter storm.

It has been quite the winter for us. We have over 50 inches of snow. It is everywhere, and still coming down. My son Erik (who is 32 today - Happy Birthday Erik!!) said one of the guys on the township board was out to the farm today (where we used to live) and was looking around at what roads should be closed as they are too difficult to keep open. Country folks are getting into town when they can to stock up and hope it isn't too long before they get out again.

We have had exemplary employees, who live out of town, staying at the nursing home because they know they will be needed for the next day. Living in town now I no longer have snow days. I usually can get to work (up the hill) and sometimes have to pinch hit in other departments. But back in my farm days, I was always glad to get home and be home when it stormed. In 1996/97 we were stormed in for nine days. That was a long spell! Thank goodness I didn't smoke or there could have been real trouble.

Well, so much for my love of winter. It hasn't paled yet, but I am thinking about it.

A little addendum: When Erik was born it was -28 below and we had gone to Minot to stay in a motel (with my sister in law and her husband as she was due too) because a "killer blizzard" was predicted. It didn't all out blizzard (remember the specs!) but it did block the roads. I went into labor that night so it was a good move on our part. Our little nine pound Erik was born at 4:13 in the morning.

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Never Give Up

I am now trying this approach. It helps if I pay close attention to directions.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Damn Cold

This a a clip sent to me from Susan in Arizona, who grew up in North Dakota. It hasn't gotten above zero today. Clear, sunny and no wind. That is the nice part: no wind!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4AMgBDlmgys


I do not know how to get this clip so all you have to do is click on it to show it. But for now if you highlight it and then click on it you can view it. Someone want to step up and help me??

Thursday, January 1, 2009

2009




Happy New Year. It was a quiet night, for the big night. We went to the local beanery, aka The Pioneer. Had the usual excellent prime rib. We were with another couple, Timm and Robin, who were having their ten year anniversary of the their first date, which took place at the Pioneer, a couple hundred moons ago. In 1999 Timm had his arm in a sling from rotator cuff surgery, this year it was Ron. My friend Del lined them up, they went on to get married. Del and her daughter Michelle lined Ron and me up, well you know the rest.

We are starting the new year with record amounts of snow. It snows every other day. Minot has recorded 24 inches for the month of December, breaking the record set back in 1916. And we have had more snow then they have, although I don't have any number to confirm it. Carsten sheared a pin on the snow blower, most likely from over use. He and Ron are to fix it very very soon!!! Today the wind is howling and rearranging the countryside. The country roads are awful, and only 4 wheel drivable if the plow hasn't been through.

For 2009 we have Beaux Davis Reid (Nic and Robert) due the end of January, a cruise/destination wedding for February (Tad and Missy), and Baby girl Espeseth (Bill and Dani) for May 1st already on the books.

Let's hope the rest of the year is as exciting and bright, for us and for you!
Happy New Year! Ron and ML

Monday, December 29, 2008

Pink Trees

Having many little odd collections started - some on hold, some forgotten about, some over done - this is a little assemblage (three!) of pink trees on greeting cards. The first one is rather recent, but the last two are moderately old, possibly from the sixties. (yikes) Before I tuck them into a box with my other old cards, I thought I would post them.







Saturday, December 27, 2008

Christmas

Visiting Grandma Snyder at the nursing home. WHO SAT ON MY HAIR??



Somewhat of a group shot.



Missy, the soon to be bride of Tad



Ron and Lacy, where is the brace?? Out of compliance!



Nicole, Robert and Lainey's Christmas Card



Erik, Nicki and Collin's Christmas card




Karlie, with her new vest and the flu.



Erik and Nicki



Tad and Missy



New Hobs from Santa






Billy and Collin watching the John Deere movie.



Collin with his "sugar pop", a treat on Christmas.



Where is Carsten, avoiding the camera as usual. It was a fun and hectic day. Grandma collapsed on the couch about 9 pm. all worn out!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas



It is Christmas morning, early and no one is up but me. I have pretty much made it, with a few odds and ends to finish before the big kids arrive. Enjoy your day and your families. Merry Christmas!

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Patient Update


Before I Sleep...


Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening
by Robert Frost

Whose woods these are I think I know,
His house is in the village though.
He will not see me stopping here,
To watch his woods fill up with snow.


My little horse must think it queer,
To stop without a farmhouse near,
Between the woods and frozen lake,
The darkest evening of the year.


He gives his harness bells a shake,
To ask if there is some mistake.
The only other sound's the sweep,
Of easy wind and downy flake.


The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.


Robert Frost wrote this poem in 1922 after struggling all night with another work. This gentle poem symbolizes for me a Christmas ideal and then along comes Christmas reality. I love the season, it is my very favorite. So as I recite this poem, I remember how wonderful this time of year is and I do need to stop along way.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Tech Christmas


This is a techie Christmas from the Davis'. I sent out Christmas cards this year with the blog address imprinted on the inside page. Now that you have arrived here at this site you are wondering, so what...

Let's back up a bit. My step-daughter Nicole started me on the blog road. She has a great site with our granddaughter Lainey as the featured item. Soon I had to try my hand at blogging. There was no stopping me.

There are zillions of blogs out there in cyberspace so I don't claim to have hit on the uniqueness of it, but I sure like how it keeps us updated in this busy world. I have the ones I look at daily in my favorites and if they are not updated I've only lost a few seconds of time, but when the blogs are splashing something new, I am delighted. Every now and then I will offer a comment which, after you have a google account, it is pretty simple.

If this is your first visit to a blog I hope you like the concept. It is an outlet for all of us frustrated and eager communicator/writers. My late Dad would be so eager to get on this fasting moving ship. He loved computers and each and every new thing that came along he had to be a part of. I think of him so often while I'm blogging.

A few little directional tips if you're a new blog visitor. When you get to the end of the page - which is way on down the line - and still are interested, it will say "older posts" and is underlined. You can click on that and it will take you back to more, and more, and more!! Now back to the opening page, I have some favorite sites listed on the right. Click on them to sail further out into the blogashpere. If you see a little TV set looking thing, similar to the YouTube look, click on the arrow and you will be able to view us in YouTube style. My old friend Susan gave me a flip video to take my blogging, as she stated, to "another level." We should all have a Susan in our lives. I love and appreciate all of her!!

How great it would be to add some new blogs to my list, from friends who are already blogging or those wanting to start. Give me a day or two to update this, I try to put something new on every few days, but it can be trying at times. So check back later and if you have questions and don't want to do the google thing, our email address is: rlmldavis@msn.com.

Have a wonderful Christmas. Love Mary Liz and Ron

Thursday, December 18, 2008

All I Want For Christmas...




Ahh, that would be a shoulder. Yesterday Ron went under the knife: partial acromionectomy and rotator cuff repair. It went well. He will come home today. Nurse Ratched will be waiting.

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Top Ten


Top Ten Reasons I haven't started shopping:

10. I live in North Dakota, all rivers and lakes are frozen so therefore my ship can't come in, and probably won't until spring, if ever!

9. Their lists keep changing.

8. I can't seem to finish decorating the house.

7. What with the economy the way it is, I am waiting for more slashing of prices. Next to nothing would be nice.

6. Naptime.

5. Everybody keeps asking, "What's for supper."

4. I can only find one glove.

3. Laundry.

2. I love to see the horrified look on the faces of those people who have been done since Memorial Day when I blurt out, "I haven't started."

And the number one reason I haven't started shopping...

Tom and Jerry's!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

The End of an Era


On Monday night I said farewell to the last of the Elementary Christmas programs. Lacy and her friend Shaylyn (BFF - Best Friends Forever for all the uninformed) are seen sashaying out of the gymnasium after the the Velva Elementary Program. Not much of a big deal you say... Well, I have been a mom in attendance for thirty years - say it with me, "30 years." Next year she will be in the 6th grade band and chorus, they perform at the High School Program.

Tad's first Christmas program was in 1978. He was ORKNO, some Star Warsy creature in the Christmas play, a big role for a first grader. By the way, 1978 was the first go round of Star Wars.

So as I said before, an end of an era.

On Wednesday I will go to Collin's Sunday School program and start the beginning of the Grandma programs. We may have our first hitch - Collin announced, at the ripe old age of 4, he didn't want to be in the Christmas program anymore. Hmmmm.