Friday, November 27, 2009

Little Church in the Big Time

This is a rather misfit blog entry, I should have stuck to the original entry on Wednesday. In the November 30th (the cover is about Helicopter Parents) TIME magazine the Norway Church of rural Denbigh ~ the famed burial home of Sondre Norheim, and home church of the Espeseth Family ~ is featured in a teeny weenie picture on the second page of an article about church safety.

Yesterday Billy wanted to see the page and do you think I could find the magazine? I am still looking for it. When I originally started this entry I looked at the link but the picture of the church wasn't included. The first page of the article is a sketch and the teeny weeny one isn't include. I have included the article for interested readers. And of course, I had to include my own shot of Norway.

My question is why the Norway church? I googled Norway Lutheran and did get one photo of the church but not the one in the article and it was a few pages into the google images. Of the thousands of pictures of churches why Norway?

More unanswered questions.

Addendum: I found the magazine and yes, it is a teeny weeny.




Tuesday, November 24, 2009

The Fargo Finish

November 20, 2009 the Fargo Forum stopped coming to our Velva mailbox; exactly one week after the closing of the Fargo house. More explicitly defined: the Fargo house was the home of my childhood, the grandma home of my children and the home where my parents lived out the best years of their lives. They are no longer living so they can't argue with me about the last comment, but I think they would agree, those days at 1514 were good.

They bought the house in the Beuland (spelling?) Addition back in the glorious fifties, 1957 to be exact. It was on the south edge of town and had a unique feature that for years I would be able to use as a landmark in describing where I lived: "It is the street with the evergreens growing on each and every boulevard." My father always hated those trees because they created a blind spot at every driveway. He was sure some kid was going to get run over. He did replace them (after an unconfirmed report of a late night booze induced chopping,in the old days my dad had a wild side to him!) with - guess what? Evergreens.

The ranch style house was never a stepping stone for bigger and better, despite my valiant efforts in later years. "Upgrade, come on let's loose this bungalow," may not have been verbatim from Miss Mimi but I'm sure I spit forth something equally as forceful. Fargo was growing and so was the square footage, but not at our house. My parents were content with what they had and were not ones to go deep in debt for a new look.

In discussing the house with my brother we aren't sure what the house was actually bought for, the purchase price. We wavered between $14,000.00 and $20,000.00. We sold it for $134,000.00 - not a bad chunk of change after all these years. It went to a couple who really wanted the house, enough to bid up 3 times. I am happy for them, even though with the nature of today's young people I doubt they will live in the house for their entire adult lives, like the predecessors. People just don't do that anymore. Too many, "let's lose this bungalow's" out there. I may have been ahead of my time.

The house underwent several cosmetic changes, thanks to the skillful eye of Evie, but never any structural revamping, unless of course I count the new concrete patio and back door. In the 70's my Dad went ham wild. He was a virtuoso in the ham radio world receiving his telegraph operator's license as a teenager. We always had ham gear in the basement, but when he put up a tower in the back yard about four stories high, I knew he'd gone ham wild, a less rabid version of hog wild!

We had a finished basement which was quite characteristic of the Beuland homes. I secretly felt we were jipped because we didn't have an incinerator like the next-door neighbors. Instead we had a bar, complete with a sink. The basement was our play ground for years. Memory serves that I took over the whole area, gee, I wonder where Tom played? I had a school room set up on one side and a house on the other. I did move my classroom for a time into the laundry room because I was tired of not having a door. My crookedly sketched, pencil drawn intercom lever was still visible above the light switch on the knotty pine wall as I carried out the last of the the boxes. Do you suppose they will wonder what the art work is? We also left them the stalwart heavy duty pencil sharpener firmly screwed down just a few inches away. Maybe a little girl will someday see a future classroom among the ironing board, freezer and washing machine - just like I did.

On the main floor my bedroom was first down the hall followed by my brother's and after the turn, my folks' - next to the bathroom. It's odd how I can sit here, 250 miles away and years later and still hear the sound of the hall light clicking on, or the sound the bathroom door closing, the front awning whipping in the wind. I have visions, just as well etched into my memory, of my Dad sitting in his chair reading the paper with the TV a wee bit too loud; my mom at the kitchen sink; my brother lying on his bed reading and listening to music on the Green Goody, a stereo (green, really) he won.

So now it's final. The Snyders have ended their tour in Fargo (Mom and Dad are buried in Moorhead along with the souls of the Mattson clan - the Snyder souls are in Livingston, MT). My grandparents and young Billy Deane moved to the big city from Dickinson in about 1919. They soon bought the house on 14th street (another half century of dwelling - I guess moving isn't in the English/Czech gene pool) and in '29 a lake cottage on little Detroit, solidifying their entry into the Fargo family crowd. So ninety years later it's time to say good-bye to a great home and a great little city, but not the huge and colorful memories we Fargo folks have.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Day One



Today is the first day of the rest of my life. I guess I could say that each and every day upon waking, but today is something special - it is the NEXT chapter. Besides having a cold that has exacerbated into a nasty cough, I did thoroughly enjoy myself all day long. There were moments when I thought: I could wake up and this is just a darn good dream; I don't really have to go back to work tomorrow, not next week or even after Thanksgiving; I can start big, big projects and not have to park them for a few days or weeks. I kept getting back a smile on my face, and was pretty sure it was for real.

I did ponder some things I want to avoid in my new retired life:

1. bigger love handles, saddle bags, and double chin.
2. a mullet (from cutting my own hair).
3. becoming a hoarder with trails throughout the house.
4. being an avid caller on talk radio - after a brief exchange of triviality they conclude by saying "appreciate the call Mare" and hang up.
5. pregnancy.
6. becoming a sunworshipper (my mother would die all over again!)
7. when speakin,' droppin the g's on action verbs: lookin', goin', talkin'. It might fly with Sarah Palin, but not for me!
8. acquiring more than one house cat.
9. putting bumper stickers on my car.

and finally...

10. thinking I should return to the workforce!!

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

And the Tree was Pink

What a surprise I had yesterday via the US Postal service. The last thing I'd ever expect to receive, please read on...

To preface this gift let's begin with last year's holiday blog entry (click on 2008 - the last entry of the year) about the feeble pink Christmas tree collection I have. The entirety of my analects exists only on paper, in the form of greeting cards.

Now one of the unbeknownst perks of the activity department is we are the unofficial drop off center for many a bundle of used greeting cards. I soon loved to sort through the drop offs as some of the cards were extremely pretty, interesting, old, artsy, unique, some really worth setting aside. This is how the pink tree collection took shape.

The first card I saw, possibly eight years ago, was stuffed, by me, into my note card holder thingamajig that sits on my desk. I never quite got around to tossing it, along with a few hundred other things. The card was so unique in its color, I couldn't let it go. Before long the first pink card was soon joined (about two years later ) by another. It was then I took the two cards home and put them into a "favorite cards" box. Last Christmas another pink card surfaced, and voila! - I had THREE pink Christmas tree cards and decided I had a collection.

After the blog entry in December of 08 my old, really my oldest friend because Roxy Rodgers and I do not keep in touch, friend Susan thought I should scarf up a pink tree on e-bay. Not one to rush into things, I nixed the idea. But I did give thought to one I saw at Menards on clearance. "Naw, you don't need to spend money on a tree, a pink one at that." echoed my alter id.

Well yesterday Ron goes to get the mail and upon returning walks into the house and says, "Did you order a Christmas tree?" Befuddled by his question I marched into the dining room and what to my wondering eyes should appear, a tree - and the tree was pink!

It didn't take too much sleuthing on my part as to where the tree came from, or more like, WHO it came from. Once again Susan had laden me with gifts. This is her most outstanding one yet: my very own pink Christmas tree. What a merry season this will be.





Lacy thought it looked like we should eat it. Merry Pink Christmas!

P.S. for Susan: this really makes the Midge doll things increasingly harder for me to swallow. You must have some Jewish mother guilt blood running in your veins.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

H1N1 Star

My little Mercedes is on the news again. This time for receiving her H1N1 vaccination. She and Dani are at the end of the clip. She must have been playing with the mic BEFORE her poke. Double click on the underlined to check it out.

Friday, October 16, 2009

Newsworthy

Mercedes has made the news. She is the first little baby with the white shirt on at the beginning of the clip. She sort of has the Grandma Davis look, "huh?" Mayor Curt Zimmbleman has proclaimed Pre-Term Birth Awareness Month. The clip goes very fast(I also had to wait quite some time for it to download) so if you missed it I will post her latest photos when she was at our house last weekend.






Grandma gear is engaged so let's show them all!!
The following: Lainey in the pumpkin patch.



This next one makes me laugh, I bet it goes with someone saying "Smile Lainey" at 2 1/2 years who knows what she thinks is a good smile.



Master Beau went to his first, of many I'm sure, Seattle Seahawks game. He brought them luck and they won after a few losses. Grandma even lightly follows the Seahawks!





Collin, he lives the closest and I haven't seen him in almost a month. Bad Grandma! I have to resort to an archived photo.

Friday, October 9, 2009

40 Days and 40 Nights

It is official, in a mere 40 days, henceforth 40 nights (sleeps if your into toddlereze) I will wake up and ask myself, "Gosh, what should I do today?" After all this will be my first day of my new life.

I didn't get a divorce, have gastric bypass surgery, (or breast augmentation either) win the lottery, turn Catholic, get a hearing aid, or hopefully not die and wake up heaven - although I do hope the latter is my eventual landing strip.

On November 18th I will wake up to my first day of my retired life. On November 17th (now that you have counted out the days) will be my last day of employment as the Activities Director at Souris Valley Care Center. I took the leap!

Not a blind leap either. Plenty of thought and sleepless nights went into this so called leap. I love my job, the residents are my extended family and so is the staff (Is that why we tangle at times, sisterly love?) I have worked there three months short of 24 years. It is a part of me, so to call it quits was not an easy decision but...

Tempus fug it, time marches on and waits for no one. I hope to pursue all the things that have been on hold, or brewing in my cranium - the cranium which many of my "sisters" have thought is rather empty at times.

Ron is now retired and it is because of this wonderful husband I have it is possible for me to take this leap. Thank you Ron, you're a good man, taking care of your good (???) wife.



So let the countdown begin!

Monday, October 5, 2009

Dead Skier

This news isn't exactly new news, in fact it is one week old. On the 29th of September Karlyn Frantsen and I made our annual journey to the Norway Lutheran Church to see if in fact Sondre Norheim is still dead. Well we know he is but it makes for a good story. In reality, we make this trip each year to partake in the laying of the wreath at the grave of Sondre Norheim, the father of modern skiing.

My sister in law Lila spearheads all the work, along with her husband Kim. My other sister in law, Sandy, is a big help to her as well but she was unable to make it this year. Karlyn and I are the journeymen coffee servers and dishwashers for the coffee and lunch served. We dress in our Norwegian garb (this year I didn't as I had not yet hauled out my Norwegian sweaters. I also noticed my scarf doesn't match my jacket - what a misfit I was this year!) and drive the twenty-five miles to the oldest Lutheran Church in the Mouse River Loop.



This little soiree has been going on since 1982 when Elvind Stronde (norsk spelling is a guess) the curator of the Sondre Norheim Museum in Telemark Norway, came to see the grave sight. In 1984 Princess Astrid (now that was big doings!!) came to lay a wreath on his grave. Every year since... well you know the rest. My mother in law, Lilian, was the kingpin (queeenpin??) for many years making it all come together. When she was no longer able to, Lila took over.



Each year the format is relatively the same, but the Norwegian guests are different. The visitors are always impressed with our simple country church that over looks the Mouse River valley.

In Norway Sondre is heralded as quite a hero, much like our Babe Ruth. In the early 1880's he left the mountainous regions of Norway to seek his fame and fortune in America. Things didn't pan out as he anticipated and he died a pauper in 1897, never again to see the snowcovered mountaintops he so loved. He and his family lived just a few miles from the Norway Church. Many many years later, in 1966, his unmarked grave was found and later decorated with the stone, flag poles and such.

So each year as the Hostfest (Minot, ND) throws open its massive doors, this little out of the way ceremony is the unofficial kick off to the biggest Norwegian gathering in the entire USA, gosh maybe the world!







R.I.P. Sondre.

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Happy Birthday Bill

At precisely 1:00 pm today William Deane will turn 28. He was a whopping 9# 6oz. and 21 inches long. Today he must be close 200# and 6 ft. tall. He is a pure joy to his mother. Happy Birthday Bill, I love you! MOM



When he was thirteen, a mere fifteen years ago he opted to make his own birthday cake. His finished product was a masterpiece.


Friday, September 25, 2009

Baby Gets Down

You have to watch this video Baby Gets Down What a little dancer!!

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Three Big Moments

My world skids around most days with little or no excitement, same old - same old. Well, that was not the case this weekend.

First was the 5th birthday party of Collin at the park in Granville. Family and a couple billion yellowjackets. Only four bites for the guests. Collin was jetting around too fast to be captured and bit. Which by the way was my "learn something new everyday" for September 19th: yellowjackets bite and don't sting. But for the record their little bite is pretty painfull. I have yet to be bit but they do like my hair with its you can hang wallpaper with it hairspray, I don't think they could tunnel their way into my melon, let alone take a chunk.

Let's get to the Kodak moments.

The Pinata





Tad working Collin for some of the candy.



Grandpa Tim had a little gun cabinet built for Collin. He doesn't have a b-b gun yet, but he did get a sling shot for his birthday. After all he is a farm kid and somebody has to get those gophers, ya know!







Lacy wackin' yellowjackets with her shoe.



Then after all the presents were opened Mommy comes with one last bag for Collin, saying it was a pretty special present. So I get ready and aim with the Nikon, and yes, it took me a second or two to get it. I believe I said, "For real?"



Erik and Nicki, second time Mom and Dad. Baby Espeseth is due March 29th. That runs the tally up to five grandkids. How blest we are!!



This morning, the 20th, we were up and on our way to Minot for Mercedes Anna's baptism at Bethany Lutheran. What a nice service given by Pastor Janet Hernes Mathistad. Mercedes was as good as gold in her hand crocheted baptismal gown. She went from one happy holder to another.







With her sponsors: Teresa Witteman, Matt Peterson, Kylie Coffin, and Tony Malachowski.










Mercedes and Auntie LuLu.



My Precious Mercedes
Today, the twentieth of September, it is your special day.
We know sweet Jesus has been with you always
in your little life, but on this baptismal Sunday
you have been sealed with the cross of Christ forever.
What a glorious moment it is;
Oh, how the angels they must rejoice!
Love, Grandma
9-20-2009

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Birthday Times Two

Two special guys in my world have birthdays today. Son Carsten is 17 and grandson Collin is 5. My how time flies.

Carsten was born on a beautiful fall Saturday, with the temperatures about 75 degrees. I had worked the day before and remember sitting at the piano while Jim Sewick, our administrator at the time, read devotions to the residents. Our activity room, which is laced on three walls with big windows, looks out over the lush Mouse River Valley. One of the free perks of working at SVCC is gazing out the window at Velva, the grain fields and the ever changing weather. I lamented to myself that autumn day: the leaves must surely be at their peak. Within 48 hours my nine pound redheaded baby boy was born.

Collin on the other hand was a month early and came rather quickly. What I remember is hearing Erik's quivery voice telling me of the possible problems that could be ahead of them with this early birth. Prayers were answered and he arrived shortly after the phone call, in pretty fine shape at that. To see him the next day was one more treasured moment for me.

Carsten absolutely despises having his picture taken. The first one is his response to a photo attempt. Tried and true family members will know what is missing in this shot.





HaHa - gotcha.



Happy day fellas. This blogger loves you to pieces and always will!!